Every week, my cousin Arne visits Nina, a woman who once helped raise his younger brother and sister. When she was younger, Nina moved to Canada from the Philippines and worked as a nanny for Arne’s family. A few years ago, she was diagnosed with a rare and debilitating form of Multiple Sclerosis that leaves her body shaking most of the time. She now lives in a palliative care unit in Vancouver and her most frequent visitor is Arne.